Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Beginning - A Contract of Sexual Submission

We began our journey by negotiating a Contract of Sexual Submission. We both came to terms rather quickly, although the negotiation was enjoyable. I will comment on the contract as an aid to us in future posts, but suffice to say, we found it a good way to make expectations clear.

Here is our contract:


Contract of Sexual Submission



This Contract establishes a Sir-submissive relationship which is effective beginning at 6PM on January 30, 2009 and ending at 6PM on April 30, 2009 between M, hereinafter referred to as Submissive, and J hereinafter referred to as Sir.

PURPOSE
This Contract is provided as an agreement which defines in specific terms the relationship and interaction between two individuals, hereafter termed the submissive and Sir. This agreement is not intended to be legal and binding. Rather, this agreement is intended to serve as clarification of expectations and limits between two consenting adults. It is agreed that fundamental to this agreement will be the practices of the virtues of trust, honesty, openness, loyalty and obedience.

This document is written expressly for the guidance, betterment and benefit of the Sir-submissive relationship. These agreements benefit Sir, as they should, but by accepting the firm hand, wisdom and guidance of these laws, they shall benefit the submissive's interests, as fully and faithfully considered and decided by Sir. This evolving document shall be a guidepost for the submissive's behavior and Sir's expectations of the submissive and what the submissive may expect from Sir. By their marks, both Sir and submissive agree and accept that these terms and conditions cannot be altered in any way except by mutual consent. This agreement must be entered voluntarily with both parties agreeing to the conditions.
Section One: Sir's Role
Sir accepts the commitment to treat the submissive properly, to train the submissive, discipline the submissive, adore the submissive, and use the submissive as he sees fit, under the provisions determined in this contract.

Discipline will include, but not be limited to corporal punishment (by hand or other implement).
Section Two: The Submissive's Role
The submissive agrees to submit to Sir within the limits specified. The submissive also agrees that, once entered into the Contract, her body belongs to Sir, to be used as seen fit, within the guidelines defined herein.

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Section Three: Terms and Limits
No part of this agreement is intended to interfere with the submissive's career. Sir wishes the submissive to work hard and honestly, in general to conduct herself in a manner calculated to bring honor and respect to them both. During periods of work, the submissive is expected to schedule appointments, to dress in a manner appropriate to work, and to conduct herself as a professional.
Submissive is expected to submit to Sir’s sexual needs upon demand. Sir will exercise judgment and understanding in making such demands.
Submissive is expected to offer herself for Sir’s sexual use and pleasure at least twice weekly. These offerings are to be made on Tuesday and Saturday evenings. In the event of health issues or travel conflict, submissive will arrange an alternate date and time to offer herself. Failure to offer herself on this schedule will result in punishment.
During sexual encounters, submissive is to be guided by the Code of Conduct, detailed below in Section Four. Any breech of this code will result in punishment.
In encounters, submissive has the following rights:
The submissive has a right to ask for an adjustment or modification to the terms of this contract at any time.

The submissive has a right to cancel this contract at any time with a simple notification to Sir.

The submissive has the right to expect her Sir to both know her, who she is and has always been, and to respect these facets of her personality and not to require her to do or become anything which would make her uncomfortable or in any way interfere with those facets of her personality.

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Section Four: Code of Conduct
The submissive must maintain a submissive demeanor at all times when in sexual sessions with her Sir. Social settings will not require this same demeanor but may be shown if not noticeable by anyone present.
1. The submissive will always speak to her Sir in terms of love and respect, addressing him appropriately. When offering herself to him, she will use the phrase “I offer myself to you.”
2. Submissive will follow any and all session rituals and protocols set forth by Sir for the term of this contract. Failure will result in punishment.
3. Submissive will engage in sessions with enthusiasm and a desire to please. She will refrain from eye rolling, heavy sighs or other signals that she is bored or displeased with how she is used.
4. Submissive will complete any assigned tasks or homework in a timely manner. Failure will result in punishment.
5. The submissive shall keep her body available for the use of her Sir. The submissive acknowledges that her Sir may use her body or mind in any manner he wishes within the parameters of safety and discretion.
6. The submissive agrees to accept any punishment Sir decides to inflict, whether earned or not. He may hurt her without reason to please Himself. The submissive enjoys the right to cry, scream or beg, but accepts the fact that these heartfelt expressions will not affect her treatment
7. Submissive will prepare herself for Sir’s use by:
A. dressing to please him.
i. Basic attire shall consist of her highest heels and stockings.
ii. Submissive shall acquire and wear provocative clothing, either at Sir’s
direction or upon her own initiative.
iii. Submissive will place priority on pleasing Sir through her dress over her
discomfort or insecurities.
B. cleaning, shaving and trimming as appropriate and specified.









Further, Submissive makes the following pledge:

1. I will not hesitate when responding to my Sir. I must be attentive to his needs and respond to them to the best of my abilities.

2. Whenever Sir speaks, even when I am speaking, I am to immediately become silent so I may be able to listen to what He has to say. I must never interrupt Him.

3. I will not be passive in serving Sir. I will participate in my exchange with Him, engaging in an enthusiastic manner.


Section Five: Submissive's Signature
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to give myself completely to my Sir, and further accept his claim of ownership over my physical body. I understand that I will be used, trained and punished. I promise to be true and to fulfill the pleasures and desires of my Sir to the best of my abilities.


Signature:___________________________

Section Six: Sir's Signature
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this submissive as possession, and to care for her to the best of my ability. I shall take her, train her, and punish her. I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no harm shall come to the submissive as long as she is mine.

Signature:___________________________

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